My cousin was sitting in a shock for over 40 years

October 06, 2022, 09:51:45 AM

Last saturday I was invited to my aunt's birthday.
We were sitting in a restaurant, my cousin (the son of said aunt), who is 6,5 years older than me sat next to me.
We were chatting about this and that and then somehow there was a opportunity to check with him if he remembers when I came under the swing (we were playing together on a swing) and was hit uncouncious by the impact.
His eyes became large, really large (like in a shock) and he said: "I could forget a lot of things in my life, but this is not one of them." My immediate respond was: "Sorry for that." He was confused saying: "I should say sorry as it was me who hit you and I was way older than you and should have watched out better!"
Well this is true. He was older. But what he didn't know is I ran this incident "a tausend times" and was confident that he is not to blame, it was an accident. So I told him with confidence, "yes, you could have been more cautious, but it was so fast you couldn't do much." This blew a lot of charge. His entire body language changed from stiff to at ease in seconds. Color in his face returned. He always seemd like a wax figure from Madame Tussaud when we came together.
And just like that I told him how fun it was up to this point nudging him to go prior to the incident and look at what happened from there for a moment.
It was a very fast process, not by the book. Just releasing his shock and giving him the confidence that I survived. At that moment in time when I lost my counciousness he thought he killed me.
The incident itself was pretty much severe for me. I was young, maybe 4-6 and I know I wrote it up here or on the other forum some time ago. It still is painful and after we talked I had to run experience/create on it again.
However, I was only able to pull it off for my cousin because I ran it before and took responsibility for me being at the wrong time at the wrong place (I was). And often when I ran this thing I connected spiritually with my cousin and new that at some point, one day, I want to run it off for him also.

It's one of the most severe incidents on my TLT case. With a lot of consequences. For example this cousin didn't come to visit us anymore, my mum "made sure of that". And even than I never blamed him for what happened, but since he was older he was to blame... This resulted in my cousin being separated and even mean to me later on the track. Although we had so much fun together.
And it was great to indicate it to and remind him of this.
He was very relieved and at the same time amazed about the way I saw it. Finally I said to him, "the worst part of it all was that my cousin didn't come visit me anymore."

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Best regards,
Christian

Re: My cousin was sitting in a shock for over 40 years

Reply #1 – October 06, 2022, 12:25:31 PM

Brilliant! Christian!

Wonderful to see our tech being applied so positively and beneficially . . .

Rog

Re: My cousin was sitting in a shock for over 40 years

Reply #2 – October 07, 2022, 05:46:26 AM

Awesome work.

Although you were the "victim" of an accident, you still care enough to bring some relief to the "perpetrator".
Well done.

Re: My cousin was sitting in a shock for over 40 years

Reply #3 – October 07, 2022, 02:01:22 PM

Thank you, Julian.

Actually after I ran the incident in the past many times I realized that I was not really a victim. It was a co-created incident. I was hit by the swing, my cousin was not able, physically, to prevent the swing to hit me when I came to close. That's why he was also in shock, and sitting in it for all these years.
His case phenomena from this incident affected me later in life too. ("Why he came so close", "I don't want to play with him anymore", "he is too little"; plus our parents, especially the mothers who pushed the blame on him.)

I just try to apply the principle of omni-responsibility for the case that was created in the incident.
Of course, when I first contacted the incident I felt like a victim but ultimately I saw what was before the incident and the fun and high mood level and I saw that it didn't happen because he intended to hurt me.
Then when the whole thing kind of evaporated (the "victim" part of it).
I ran experience/create, the Holographic Incident Procedure, the Shock Handling and Responsibility on it.
I still have some pain/sensation in this area from time to time. It was a heavy duty swing.

Best regards,
Christian