Wins on Relationships, one of the 5 Pillars of Power

May 17, 2025, 02:59:24 PM

I recently did a session with Roger. The original intention was to address charge I was experiencing as the result of my mother's recent death. As I was inspecting this area of loss something very interesting came to view. I was expecting to work on my sadness at her bodily death, but instead the topic of relationships came to view. For she was the center of my family - the matriarch. Now my extended and nuclear family of origin was rudderless. For she was the hub of communications between all the people in my family. She held a lot of the holiday get-togethers and other get togethers as well. Now "the matriarch" was gone. I was now de-energized and seriously reduced in power with regards to relationships.

As I explored this further in the session, I came to the realization that both socially and in business, I had relied on these "centers of relationship power" to form my relationships. My late wife was another person who created the relationships that I tapped into. After she died, many of my social contacts in my town and area faded away as they were primarily her relationships. This situation was also true in my Corporate America Business career where my relationships depended on my company or higher ups relationships.

So the session shifted from Mom's death to her position of relationship power in my life and then every other relationship power structure in my life. The next cognition was that this relationship issue is a very charged area. I had solved the charge by connecting into centers of relationship power. My power to be my own sovereign center of relationship power was quite weak.

What I discovered was that I lacked the discernment to create sovereign power alignments and creating these alignments was very charged and was, therefore, a difficult and avoided action.

This weakness was quite apparent in my attempt to be self employed. Up until now it had been a failing endeavor and the reason had escaped me until now. As a self employed person, I needed to be a sovereign center of relationship power and connections. But this item was way too charged. It then became apparent to me that I was significantly missing the relationship pillar of power. I was okay on Knowledge and Truth and Integrity pillars. The Love pillar needed some more work but Relationships in a sovereign manner was very weak.

When one looks at the exchange of power, all pillars are important but nothing big can happen until the relationship pillar is fully functional. If it is charged, exchange will be blocked or restrained. When I returned home, I started to do some clean slate on relationships and charge started to blow off. It is a monster item, the Relationship pillar, but until now I presumed I had relationships under control. I did as long as I had my mother, my wife and my business associates connections. Without these "center of relationship power connections", I became "dead in the water"- a non-relator.

I once taught this Ascensionism material to prison inmates for a few years. One inmate student drew a picture for me of the 5 Pillars of Power which I framed. I liked the picture except I never really liked the Relationship Pillar in his picture. Now I know why. Too much charge. I am now very optimistic that I can get my business off the ground once I clear a decent amount of charge of the Relationship Pillar of Power.

Much processing work to do here. But the first step is to identify the area/item which is causing the problems.

Anthony

Re: Wins on Relationships, one of the 5 Pillars of Power

Reply #1 – May 18, 2025, 04:10:11 AM

Great Wins, Anthony!
Thank you for sharing. It makes so much sense!

Best regards,
Christian

Re: Wins on Relationships, one of the 5 Pillars of Power

Reply #2 – May 18, 2025, 06:13:15 AM

Yes, it was a session to remember.

The key to it for me as a Processor and Coach was the knowing the basics of our Beingness, Existence and the Practices we engage in.

I forget the exact question I used to have Anthony move into what was/is the big and basic case item for him to handle . . . but basically, it was on the lines that, in listening to what he was saying I could see we needed to move him away from fixing on the loss of his mother and to have him address and process the repair and re-empowerment of the key basics of his Spiritual Existence and Games Practices.

The key data on this is in the attached document I wrote some 10+ years ago.

As a note of truth, the original five Pillars of Power was Alan's list. Virginia caused him to add "Creation" (and the notion of being the Source of any creation). I later added "Presence" to the top of the list as, without that, nothing else can happen.

As I am constantly saying in my dialogues with the PhD types I interface with during the week: "The research I began in 1954 was not based on a review of the theoretical propositions of all the historically clever fellows that proceeded me, nor of the Scientism standard procedure of positing an hypothesis and setting about to test its correctness . . . my gig as a champion athlete was to discover and articulate what our basic abilities and powers are such that they could be enhanced and made more powerful . . . and the first breakthrough discovery in 1957 was the fact that we are Spiritual Beings/Presences endowed with Life-Force. Then, over the years the analysis of that Spiritual Life-Force as the basis of the Game of Life we are engaged in and how we can best deploy and harness it, led to our ability to use our knowledge to achieve the kind of wins and upgraded operation as described by Anthony above.